“In our therapeutic culture born in the 1960s, sex was recalibrated as liberating, free, and without consequences—not as the Greeks once warned of Eros as dangerous and destructive in its power to cloud reason and make even the sober and judicious mere slaves to their appetites.” Victor Davis Hanson
“The lesson of history is civilization is a rarity attained with difficulty and easily lost. The normal state of humanity is barbarism.” C. S. Lewis
“Chastity is the most unpopular of the Christian virtues. It is either marriage, with complete faithfulness to your partner, or else total abstinence.” C. S. Lewis
“Either we are rational spirit obliged forever to obey the absolute values of the Tao [moral order], or else we are mere nature to be kneaded and cut into new shapes for the pleasures of masters who must have no motive but their own natural impulses.” C. S. Lewis
Just like aggressive nations, so too people who are not innately moral are deterred from committing crimes by fear of punishment.
The likelihood of arrest, the good chance of conviction, the probability of jail time or fines, or a permanent criminal record—or all that and more—do their parts to discourage criminality.
In that context, the sudden deluge of sexual harassment claims shares one common theme: lost deterrence.
Those who use their positions of ideological correctness, perceived power, authority, influence, or money to leverage some sort of unwanted sex (from a fleeting grope to coerced intercourse) do so because, in their jaded cost-benefit calibrations, they can.
In our postmodern age, we can no longer rely on now ancient notions of self-restraint. Too many celebrities and power-mongers deprecate the old idea of acting like a gentleman as corny or passé. Many of today’s feminists may find men who open doors, pick up the dinner tab, or postpone sexual intercourse until there is a clear relationship as either condescending chauvinists or utter nerds. Hollywood seems to have idealized the moment when a man rough-handles a woman until his violence leads to eroticism and a willing surrender in his arms—in clinical terms perhaps possible, in real life clearly quite rare.
The majority of high-profile men do not ascribe anymore to religious principles that restrain the libido. Mike Pence was laughed at for his wise counsel of avoiding ubiquitous temptations—as if he were a 60-something innocent babe in the woods of slithering vamps.
In our therapeutic culture born in the 1960s, sex was recalibrated as liberating, free, and without consequences—notas the Greeks once warned of Eros as dangerous and destructive in its power to cloud reason and make even the sober and judicious mere slaves to their appetites.
A sex-sick Phaedra was not a pretty sight. Continue reading